Every wedding has a shot list, and we follow it properly family groupings, the ring exchange, the first dance. But look back at your favourite photo from any wedding you've attended, and chances are it wasn't on anyone's list.
It's the flower girl asleep on a stack of chairs by hour six. A father straightening his tie for the fourth time, more nervous than the groom. The half-second before a toast lands and the room actually laughs.
We treat the list as a floor, not a ceiling everything on it gets covered, but the real work happens in the gaps between, where nobody's performing because nobody remembers the camera's there.